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Starting Conversations With Your Parents About Aged Care

on Monday, May 15, 2023

Starting a conversation with your parents about aged care can be a difficult and sensitive topic. However, it's important to have open and honest communication with your parents about their needs and preferences as they age. 

Here are a few tips for starting the conversation:

Start early: It's best to start the conversation about aged care well before your parents actually need it, so that you have plenty of time to consider all the options and make a plan.
 
Be respectful and non-confrontational: Approach the conversation in a respectful and non-confrontational manner, and be willing to listen to your parents' concerns and perspectives.
 
Use "we" instead of "you" and "I": Use "we" instead of "you" and "I" when discussing aged care options, as this can help to make the conversation feel less confrontational and more collaborative.

Find the right time and place: Choose a time and place to talk that is convenient for both you and your parents, and that is free from distractions or interruptions.

Provide information: Provide your parents with information about the different types of aged care available, and explain the benefits and drawbacks of each option.

Be open to your parents' preferences: Be open to your parents' preferences, and respect their decision even if it's different from what you would choose for yourself.

Seek professional help: If needed, seek the help of a professional such as a geriatric care manager or social worker, who can provide additional information and support.

Reassure your parents that this is a normal process and that it is in their best interest.

It's important to remember that everyone's situation is different, and that what works for one person may not work for another. The most important thing is to have open and honest communication with your parents, and to work together to find a solution that meets their needs and preferences.

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