What Is a Eulogy? Tips for Crafting a Memorable Tribute

The term "eulogy" can often seem mysterious, wrapped in the formalities of traditional funeral services. So, what exactly is a eulogy? Tomorrow Funerals believe in using clear and modern language to help clients navigate through this challenging time, understanding that the period following the loss of a loved one is already filled with enough confusion and anxiety.

Definition: Eulogy
Eulogy (noun): A speech or piece of writing that praises someone highly, especially a tribute to someone who has just died.

We prefer to call it a "Life Story." We believe in celebrating a life well-lived through stories that evoke a range of emotions, from laughter to tears.

Crafting a Great Life Story or Eulogy

Writing a eulogy can feel overwhelming, but it’s essentially about sharing stories that honor the deceased. Whether it’s a well-structured narrative delivered by a celebrant or spontaneous memories shared by friends and family, a good eulogy brings the person to life for the audience.

Here’s our comprehensive guide to writing a memorable Life Story or eulogy:

Writing Guide

Step 1: Start with the Beginning

Setting up the story is crucial. Begin with their early years, family background, or a favourite saying or joke that encapsulates their essence.

1. Basic Information: NAME was born on [date] in [place].

2. Family Background: Include parents' names and a brief description of the family dynamic.

3. Education and Early Life: Where did NAME go to school? What were their formative experiences?

4. Significant Changes: What notable events or changes occurred during their early years?

5. Memorable Characters: Are there any friends or teachers who played a significant role?

Step 2: The Middle – Bringing the Person to Life

A great eulogy goes beyond basic facts, highlighting significant stories, qualities, and relationships.

1. Family and Friends: Describe NAME's family and closest relationships.

2. Main Relationships: Share stories about their partner, if applicable, and other important relationships.

3. Personality and Character: What were NAME’s strengths, weaknesses, talents, and passions?

4. Work Life: Describe their occupation and notable achievements.

Step 3: The Later Years

Reflect on their later life, changes, and continued passions.

1. Living Situation: Where had NAME been living recently?

2. Activities and Interests: What did they enjoy doing in their later years?

3. Relationships: Who were the significant people in their life during this time?

Step 4: Additional Details

Include anecdotes that paint a full picture of their personality and life.

1. Hobbies and Interests: Describe their favourite activities and pastimes.

2. Likes and Dislikes: Share their preferences and quirks.

3. Memorable Trips: Highlight any special trips or holidays.

4. Favourite Sayings: Include any favourite jokes or sayings.

Step 5: Concluding the Eulogy

End with a strong, memorable conclusion that captures the essence of their life.

1. Memories and Lessons: What will you miss most about NAME? What lessons did they teach you?

2. Legacy: How will NAME be remembered? What family traits will be passed down?

3. Final Farewell: Consider ending with a quote or their own way of saying goodbye.

Need Help?

If you need professional assistance, Tomorrow Funerals works with experienced celebrants who can help you create a remarkable memorial event, turning your memories into lasting family stories.

Writing a eulogy is a powerful way to honour and celebrate a loved one's life. By following these steps, you can craft a tribute that is heartfelt, personal, and memorable.

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